Hi Zara,

Such a beautifully crafted heartfelt piece! I read your work Often and marvel at your honesty and fortitude.

I know exactly where you’re coming from. I’m from the same sort of background. My kids grew up in the States and I grew with them. I myself was nearly killed, an honor killing because I fell in love back home with a dude from a different Zaat. Roughly translates into ‘caste.’ Long story short, I was disowned and cast out by my extended family. We’ve been married now for 46 years!

I vowed I’d never stand in the way of the wishes of my kids. It was hard to bite my tongue so to speak!

Your dad loves you so much and you, him. I can’t bear the thought of losing my kids. I’m sure he suffers excruciating pain for his act of rejection. You’re young. And strong. Perhaps try reaching out to him? I don’t mean to lecture you. I cried a bit when I read this. I apologize if in any way I upset you.

Many hugs!